Quick quiz #1: Who was Jesus’ mother?
Quick quiz #2: Who were Jesus’ Grandmothers?
The Bible never gives the names of Mary and Joseph’s mothers, although it does tell us the names of four of the geat-great-etc.-grandmothers in Jesus’ ancestry.
- Tamar (Matthew 1:3)
- Rahab (Matthew 1:5)
- Ruth (Matthew 1:5)
- Bathsheba (Matthew 1:6)
Some say that including these women among the dozens of men named in Jesus’ ancestry shows God’s grace and redemption in the women’s lives. That is true, just as the list shows the same for the men named there. Yet there is a temptation to oversimplify what God did in his grace when redeeming these four women. More than one writer or preacher has taught that:
- The inclusion of Tamar shows God redeeming her from her sexual immorality and deception in bedding her father in law Judah (although Genesis 38 clearly shows she acted morally and righteously, and that Judah is the one who was in the wrong).
- The inclusion of Rahab shows God can use even a prostitute to build his kingdom (although Joshua 2 is not clear on whether she was a prostitute or – just as likely – an innkeeper).
- The inclusion of Ruth shows that God can use penniless widows on the extreme margins of society, honoring their faithfulness just as Ruth was faithful in caring for her equally poverty-stricken mother in law.
- The inclusion of Bathsheba shows that God will use children of immoral relationships (although to suggest, as some do, that Bathsheba was a willing participant in an adulterous tryst denies the reality that she had no choice in the matter; her husband was away at war and the king summoned her to his bed).
It is not that these four aspects are completely untrue. Rather, it is that these are superficial matters when it comes to understanding the most significant aspect of those women’s lives.
The most significant aspect they shared is that they were all evil.
Tamar, Rahab, Ruth and Bathsheba are not actually described as bad people anywhere in Scripture. It’s just that they all are tainted by the nation they are identified with. In that day’s culture, this taint was considered as personal as the nose on one’s face.
The tainting nation is not Israel, especially not for Tamar, Rahab and Ruth. They are foreigners: Tamar and Rahab were Canaanites, and Ruth is a Moabite. As for Bathsheba, her nationality of birth is not mentioned but she married a Hittite and by virtue of that marriage took on her husband’s identity.
Each of those nations – Canaan, Moab and Hatti (the homeland of the Hittites) – was abhorrent to God’s people and that abhorrence extended to each person of the abhorred nation. To understand fully, look at the circumstances God’s people faced when he brought them out of Egypt to the land that would become Israel’s home, a territory already occupied by other nations.
My angel will go ahead of you and bring you into the land of the Amorites, Hittites, Perizzites, Canaanites, Hivites and Jebusites, and I will wipe them out. Do not bow down before their gods or worship them or follow their practices. You must demolish them and break their sacred stones to pieces. (Exodus 23:23-24.)
Completely destroy them—the Hittites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites—as the Lord your God has commanded you. (Deuteronomy 20:17.)
The Israelites did not follow God’s command, but rather:
The Israelites lived among the Canaanites, Hittites, Amorites, Perizzites, Hivites and Jebusites. (Judges 3:5.)
The people of Israel, including the priests and the Levites, have not kept themselves separate from the neighboring peoples with their detestable practices, like those of the Canaanites, Hittites, Perizzites, Jebusites, Ammonites, Moabites, Egyptians and Amorites. They have taken some of their daughters as wives for themselves and their sons, and have mingled the holy race with the peoples around them. And the leaders and officials have led the way in this unfaithfulness. (Ezra 9:1-2.)
Notice that one addition to the list in that last passage is Moab, a nation subject to a special prohibition.
No … Moabite or any of their descendants may enter the assembly of the Lord, not even in the tenth generation. (Deuteronomy 23:3.)
Ruth was a Moabite born and bred, and is not only listed as Jesus’ ancestor but also King David’s great grandmother. Since David was only three generations removed from her, he was automatically disqualified from entering God’s assembly. Yet he not only joined the assembly but led the procession. (2 Samuel 6: 12-16.)
Tamar’s marriage into the nation of Israel was not explicitly prohibited at that time, since she lived centuries before God brought his people out of Egypt. But her people had the same detestable practices as later Canaanites. Ruth and Bathsheba certainly lived in the time of prohibition for marriage between Israelites and Canaanites or Hittites.
None of them – Tamar, Rahab, Ruth and Bathsheba – should have been allowed to marry as they did, yet they each had marriages that led eventually to the birth of the Messiah, the hope of Israel.
Qualifying the Disqualified
When I read those four names in Jesus’ genealogy I do not focus on their personal shortcomings. Everyone God redeems has fallen short. (Romans 3:23.)
When I read their names I am instead struck by God’s audacious grace. The Israelites had these instructions:
- Don’t marry Canaanites; don’t marry Hittites. Wipe them from the face of the earth!
- Don’t let Moabites anywhere near God’s assembly. Don’t let their children near, don’t let their grandchildren near, and don’t let anyone else related to them near even if they are ten generations removed!
And yet that’s exactly what God did. He allowed Canaanites and Hittites and Moabites and many others into his family, marriage and birth and on through generations, and then he joined them when he was born in Bethlehem. This is who God is,
Don’t I have the right to do what I want with my own wealth? Or are you envious because I am generous? (Matthew 20:15.)
and who he has always been.
I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. (Deuteronomy 23:3.)
Tamar and Rahab and Ruth and Bathsheba are us – all of us – every woman and every man God has brought into his family. All are disqualified from entering his assembly, and yet he has qualified us through the gift of his Son. (Ephesians 3:12.) It is because of his grace in using those four women and all the women whose names are left out that we now enjoy fellowship in the Lord’s assembly, a gathering that includes those shepherds in the fields 2000 years ago.
And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.” (Luke 2:8-11.)
Good news and great joy. That’s what Tamar and Rahab and Ruth and Bathsheba gave us in their grandson (many times great).
That’s what comes with the gracious gift of Jesus our Savior at Christmas.